It's happening again, comparing myself to you
You do not need to compare yourself with others. Because this needing of comparing yourself to others comes from the need of controlling other people that you like and being afraid of doing wrong or causing bad views of yourself to appear in your loved ones.
And if you ask about why you want to control and are afraid of others' thoughts...I can easily answer it as your belief and need to please them.
Just Breathe.
You do not need and do not have to please anybody other than 'that person'. People can come and go, look at you, maybe stay, maybe run... But you cannot decide who will do which one. You cannot please those who want to go.
Everybody has their mind, their thinking style, their circles, and their mechanisms...As you have yours!
That person you want to please always should be "yourself" always.
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